Stratagem 26: Point at the Mulberry Tree but Curse the Locust Tree
Identification
Convey your intentions and opinions indirectly.
Example
Using subtle phrasing or cues to get what you want. Instead of saying, “I want a car,” you mention, to someone who cares, “I’d love to not have to take the bus,” and act pleasantly surprised when they hand you the new keys.
Solution
Know thine enemy.